Apo mumwe mukomana Mindie Kaplan akaona kuti aizobhadhara muedzo wake wekukurumidza kwezuva rechipiri (kudya kumba kwake), akashamisika zvishoma.
Kaplan akati: "Ndinoda kuziva kana ichi chiri chitsva" kutenga kudya kwemanheru kwakaenzana nekunonoka kurara," akadaro Kaplan, anogara kuChelsea.Iye mushambadzi wesocial media uye muvambi wepodcast uye vhidhiyo akatevedzana MaleRoom.
Vaviri ava vakabvumirana kusangana panzvimbo yekuyedza nekukurumidza muUpper West Side.Vachiri kumirira mhedzisiro vakabva vaenda kunharaunda kunonwa doro.
“Mudumbu mangu mune gomba, ‘Ndinotamba sei?’” akadaro Kaplan, uyo akaramba kutaura zera rake.“Anga akafanana, 'Tarisa foni yako.Pane mugumisiro here?'”
Iye akati, "Ndakati app yanga isiri kushanda ndikamuudza kuti maresults angu anonoka."Nenzira iyi, usiku hwakanga hwapera.
Vamwe veNew Yorkers vachaita zvese zvavanogona kuti vabatane, kusanganisira kuronga bvunzo nekukurumidza zuva reValentine risati rasvika, iro rinogona kuita mari inosvika madhora zana nemakumi maviri nemapfumbamwe zvichienderana neinishuwarenzi yako.Asi nyanzvi dzinoyambira kuti bvunzo idzi dzinoshanda chete kana dzaitwa nemazvo.
Dara Cass, chiremba wechimbichimbi paColumbia University Medical Center muNew York City, akati izvi zvinoreva kuti kuvharirwa kunofanirwa kutanga kwaitwa.
"Kana ukaronga kufambidzana kekutanga paZuva raValentine, ndeapi mikana yekuti rimwe bato riparadzanise shamwari dzese, mhuri uye kubasa?"Cass akadaro."Izvi zvinoreva kuti bvunzo idzi dzinoita kuti vanhu vaone kuti munhu wacho haana hutachiona."
A kukurumidza pre-kufambidzana bvunzo anogona kuva zvikuru kuchipatara zvinoreva kupfuura mubatanidzwa, asi daters vakawanda vanotenda iyi ndiyo chete nzira kupinda munda uyu.
Jonah Feingold paakatanga kuvhunduka, akabika mapopcorn netukudya kumba kwake kekutanga.
"Uropi hwangu hwakatanga kutenderera pamusoro pehutachiona," akadaro Feingold, makumi matatu, anogara ega muGreenpoint.“Ndakaona kuti ndaifanira kutaura nezvokubvunza mukadzi akauya kumba kwangu manheru iwayo kuzoona firimu neni.”
Akadaidza zuva rake mudzidzisi wekuManhattan kindergarten anogara nevabereki vake, uye akabva avaudza kuti vatore bvunzo nekukurumidza vasati vasangana.
Feingold, mugadziri wemabhaisikopo uye anoshanda pamwe chete neSeeing Other People, akati: “Tose tinoda kuongororwa kuti tisazvidya mwoyo nguva dzose uye kuti tigare tose.”Ukama.
Kunyangwe pasina munhu akagovana maitiro avo emuviri, Feingold akataura kuti vaive vazere nekuvimba nekutumira mameseji zuva rese kuti vazivise chiitiko ichi, kusanganisira kutumira maselfies kune mumwe nemumwe panguva yekuyedzwa kwepamhepo.
Vakazopedzisira vavadira mundiro imwechete yepopcorn, uye hongu, kumwe kutsvoda kwaisanganisira-zvese zvisina mask.
Iye akati: "Ndinofunga kuti unofanirwa kufunga nezve tambanuko yaunoda kurarama hupenyu hwerudo, kunyangwe ukaita zvese kuti ugare wakachengeteka."
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Nguva yekutumira: Feb-24-2021